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What You Can Learn from Three Top Fashion Icons over 40

Hollywood is definitely youth-obsessed and so it is not surprising that we hear more about young Hollywood actresses like Jennifer Lawrence and Emma Stone than the three super stars below (although Oprah is certainly in a class all her own!). The younger stars are fresh and new, but more seasoned stars have a wealth of knowledge and life experiences to share and they offer wonderful reflections of what women over 40 can be… fashionable and fierce!

Jamie Lee Curtis
Three aspects of fashion can be learned from this former horror movie star: Evolve your look, be true to yourself and stay fierce. Despite straight, uncolored hair for instance, she spikes it giving it a hint of the same knockout look for which she has always been famous. She believes fully in accepting your body, thighs, tummy and all the areas she’s sensitive about and even went so far as to have her picture highlighted in More Magazine ( as she posed, without airbrushing, in her underwear. In fact, it was the only way she would agree to the interview. As she said in the article, “Glam Jamie will pose only if Real Jamie gets equal time.”

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Jamie Lee Curtis doesn’t keep up a façade of having the body of a teenager and is not afraid to let her image evolve as she gets older. Above all she is real. She maintains her fierceness with her spikey naturally gray hair and simple elegance (often dressing monochromatically) as well as in her role as mother, actress, children’s book author and activist.

Sarah Jessica Parker
Instead of staying stuck in the 90’s with her icon character Carrie Bradshaw that catapulted her to fame, Sarah Jessica Parker has embraced aging gracefully. Much like Carrie, she has never shied away from the fairy tale flowing dress but her day to day living is much more natural and comfortable—her stilettos giving way to more flat shoes while always maintaining a sense of elegance and fun.


In a very telling interview with Katie Couric for the February 2014 issue of In Style magazine, Sarah Jessica Parker shared that “she chooses clothes because she responds to them, not in the hopes of landing on some best-dressed list (though she often does). ‘So I think pulling it off or not puling it off, that almost doesn’t exist for me because, really, I’m looking for experiences, not some report card.’” So well said!

Oprah is not a shrinking violet and never has been. Like Jamie Lee Curtis, Oprah has a fierceness and is not afraid to show her passionate, intense side through her clothes or her new eyeglasses.

I am writing this as I am about to head out to shop for eyeglasses with three of my clients. It is fun to see that Oprah, in true Oprah form, is not shying away from the fact that she wears glasses. She is embracing them front and center on her face. Forget a rimless, unobtrusive pair. Hers are right on trend (eyeglass frames are getting bigger) and make a statement—very fitting to her big personality. From distinctive tortoiseshell frames to a black and gold pair that says pay attention: even her sunglasses are bold! She doesn’t care if anyone else likes it. She dresses for herself.

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Each of these icons has a signature style. Whether it’s Jamie Lee Curtis’ minimalist approach to fashion, Sarah Jessica Parker’s quiet elegance with a hint of whimsy and fun or Oprah strong presence and bold statements, each of them has one thing in common:

They are each true to who they are. They aren’t trying to be someone else or fit into a mold. This becomes more and more critical as we get older. Being ‘real’ and true to yourself is what it’s all about.

Do you risk making a ‘mistake’ that way or disappointing other people? Sure! Do you also get to enjoy expressing what makes you special? Yes, again!

In fact, all of this becomes more critical the older you get. Allow your style to evolve, be open to new possibilities, tweak your accessories to stay current and comfortable and never change who you are to please anyone else…even if the fashion magazines (or anyone else) tell you to.

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How to Look Great on Any Budget

Believe it or not, money is never the reason you don’t have a wardrobe you love. I know it’s so easy to think, “Oh, if I only had more disposable income I would look as good as so-and-so. She has the money to buy anything she wants!” Continue reading…

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How to go from Yoga to the Real World

Today there is literally not a moment available just to think. Most appointments demand our constant attention with “need-to-be-here’s” and “got-to-be-there’s.” That being said, how do you make sure you find time for me-things like yoga and still feel prepared for the rest of your day? Continue reading…

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Three Tips Joan Rivers Taught Us About Personal Style

While she may have had a sharp tongue with her “What were you thinking?” fashion statements on Fashion Police, Joan Rivers was still a positive style icon in many ways. Aside from being the foundation of such transitions (whether you love them or not) as Kelly Osborne and others, her own style and beliefs have a few nuggets that you may not have seen on the red carpet but which were in her personal and professional beliefs about life, style and self.
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How to Choose the Right Shoes to Make Your Legs Look Longer

You purchase an outfit at the store, get home and put it on. All is going well until you add shoes. You stare at the mirror wondering why suddenly the outfit doesn’t work. You try standing differently. You even try a different pair of shoes or adjust your posture. It doesn’t help. Finally, with great dismay you take off the garment and stick it back in the bag to return to the store.

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How to Get into Fall Without Fail

The chill in the air is starting to re-enter into our daily lives and the ads for back to school are now so consistent they can be ignored like the other ads.  It is fall.  But while you pack away the bathing suits and shorts, how do you move into fall with style?

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Bewitched, Bothered & Bewildered: Fall 2014 Fashion Update

While I was not ready to see the glorious summer fade away this year, I have to admit I always enjoy witnessing the upcoming trends, especially in yummy fall colors. This season will not disappoint. While some trends are expected, like velvet and turtlenecks, others are a delightful surprise, like tassels and A-line dresses.  Then, of course, there are the ones that leave me feeling bewildered, wondering if the designers are either tired or are simply at a loss for new (flattering) ideas. Continue reading…

The perfect scarf tie

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Back to School Fashion: How to Look Like the Cool Mom

The ads of kids roaming classrooms are everywhere and the evenings are getting a bit cooler…the summer is coming to an end. Another school year is in our near future. Although it is the child going to school, the moms will be just as busy…band practices, PTA meetings and carpools, oh my! But, while it is time to buy the backpacks and pencil sets, moms should remember they, too, need to get themselves ready as well.  But, with all that’s going on, who has the time to make sure they look their best, too? Just throw on the yoga pants and the handiest top in the closet, right? But while your body may be comforted, how is your confidence? Continue reading…

How to Dress for an Interview: The Good, the Bad and the Frizzy

In a recent article for Real Simple, entrepreneur icon Barbara Corcoran discussed an evolving error made by interviewees every day: missing the mark on what is acceptable; either wearing too much of the right things (“too much makeup and jewelry or impractical shoes”) or too little of the right things (i.e., inappropriate things like “stretchy pants, oversize tops, and sneakers”). So with the fall bringing in new opportunities for so many, let’s discuss three commandments to getting an interview outfit right in a way that will ease your mind and make a positive impression. Continue reading…

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