The Hidden Truth About Undergarments
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 My cats love to hide. Their disappearing acts are a constant source of amusement. Invariably, a tail is sticking out--sometimes even a whole back end. It's the cutest thing! It's just not particularly effective! Do they think that if they can't seem me, then I must not be able to see them?I think women sometimes perceive their undergarments the same way. If they can't see them, then no one else can either. It's a case of out of sight, out of mind. As a result, we often see more than we care to and wonder why they aren't aware of what is so obvious to the rest of us.Undergarments are the basis on which a look is created. An ill-fitting bra, improper support, or things sticking out in unusual places can totally undermine an otherwise beautiful look. Just as you wouldn't ask a plumber to do an electrician's job, you cannot ask a sports bra to do what a convertible bra must or wear a thong when support-wear is called for.Here are four considerations:Wayward Bra Straps: There's a disturbing fashion trend out there of purposely visible bra straps. It befuddles me not because it's obscene but mostly because it's often unattractive. Not all bra straps are created equal. Here's a rule of thumb: If your bra straps look like bra straps, keep them hidden. If they match the strap of your outfit exactly and are pretty, then they can be exposed but only worn casually. I have a stretchy teal camisole with spaghetti straps that I often wear to the beach. I have a bra that matches perfectly and the straps are delicate and pretty. You cannot tell the bra strap from the cami straps.Bra straps that constantly slip off your shoulder are easily remedied with a racerback bra or go to http://www.thestrapper.com/index.html for help turning a regular bra into a racerback.Visible Panty Lines: Let's end this problem forever. Before you leave the house, always take a look at yourself from behind. It's that simple. Twist, turn, bend, and move. Can you see a pantyline? If so, there are many options out there that make pantylines disappear. If you don't know where to start, take a look at Hanky Panky lingerie (www.hankypanky.com) for one of the most comfortable thongs. Other options (thongs, bikinis, boy shorts, etc.) with no VPL are made by Commando, Calvin Klein, Jockey and Bali, to name a few.Visible Thong: Although it seems to be fashion gone awry with young men, the idea of exposing one's underwear while wearing lowrise pants is downright unattractive on anyone. Again, check your rear view and don't just stand there. Bend over, move around. Get a glimpse at what the rest of the world sees. Underwear is meant to be just that--under-wear!Misfitting Bra: I saved the best for last. Ill-fitting bras can ruin an outfit, and the number of women wearing the wrong size bra for their bodies is mindboggling. When your bra fits well, clothing hangs better, darts fall in the right place, and everything looks more balanced. If you're not sure, get fitted by someone who knows what she is doing. It will forever give you a new appreciation of the value of undergarments. If you live in the Boston area and need an expert for a bra fitting, go to Night and Day Lingerie in Andover (a new one is opening soon in Newburyport, too)www.nightanddaylingerie.com (if you would like a 20% off card, please let me know and will send one to you).
For help in figuring out your proper bra size on your own, go to www.barenecessities.com.
The first step is awareness. Have you been taking your undergarments for granted? Do you buy a new bra and then don't think about it again until it is so ragged and lifeless that it practically falls apart in the laundry? Do you figure that if it is covered up no one else will know that your underwear desperately needs a makeover? The truth is that well-fitting, appropriate undergarments are seen only by you. Ill-fitting, inappropriate undies are visible to everyone. With a little forethought, it's an easy problem to remedy, and the results are immediate. |
